Stephen asks: "I am trying to find a 'real' adult dating site. The people on there either do not exist or are trumped up.It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply.And when I clicked on a picture, the city and/or state changed to someplace nearby... There has to be a legitimate adult dating site out there. "Welcome, Stephen, and thanks to my colleague, sexuality expert Cory Silverberg, for sending you my way.To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles?If that's the case, I'll admit it's pretty hard to find.
Even sites that may once have been good can go bad.They may be sold to a different owner who uses different standards or may engage in some of those shady practices to boost membership and use. You simply have to watch your back on any online dating site.Always be wary of the signs of an internet dating scam.We can all help keep each other safe by reporting dating scams.These recommendations are just for a snapshot in time.Good sites can go bad, and those I don't recommend may improve.Of course, new sites will debut that may or may not be of merit.My first recommendation would be to try Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section; you sign up with them and then decide which of the three sections you want to be a part of (Dating, Relationships or Intimate Encounters).You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly ideal.My preferences would be Club Intimate, Fling, Adult Match Doctor, and Get It On, As for adult dating sites that I don't recommend, see my reviews for Shag Pal and Adult Friend Finder.